How to Buy Better and Spend Less

With it still being the beginning of the year (just about) and fashion month coming up, I thought it might be a good time to talk investment buys. I also invested in a couple of more expensive items of clothing recently and wanted to share my thoughts on why in the long run it costs less to spend more and why it’s all round better for your wallet, mentality and the environment.  I love clothes and I like to shop, and I’m an advocate for Monroe’s school of thought: "give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world." The right clothes do indeed give us confidence and make us feel empowered. But the fact that fashion is one of the most polluting industries on the planet is not lost on me. As I’ve gotten older I’ve become a lot more discerning about my buying choices. I'm happy to report that I rarely panic buy anymore - remember those days, when you had a party coming up and dashed into the nearest high street shop to purchase a ‘going out’ top?! Guilty. And I try to buy less, as well as better quality clothes that will last longer. Of course I still follow the trends, but I am much more selective with which ones I buy into, favouring instead items that are more likely to last and that will be ‘on trend’ in years to come. As Yves Saint Laurent once said: “fashions fade, style is eternal.” Timeless style is in fact the trend you should be buying into. It is also, incidentally something I've learnt a lot more about since moving to Paris – but more on that later. Of course buying better can come with a heftier price tag, but if spend more, but buy less, things eventually even out and it could save you money as you won't have to replace items so frequently.

I also think it’s important here to address the apparent need for new that has been fostered and actively encouraged by the blogging and influencer industry. A subject that Brittany Bathgate, whose carefully-curated minimalist style I admire, has written a good piece on freshessay. I would be lying if I said that I didn’t also feel the constant pressure to buy, wear and photograph something new in the quest for new content. I do. And I’m also signed up to affiliate link platforms, as many bloggers are - so it has become part of my job. These platforms are indeed brilliant inventions, because why shouldn't we, as content creators, wearers of clothes, discerners of fashion, things and promoters of brands, have the chance to earn a commission from the items we suggest and work on promoting? Of course the downside of content creation, is that it can promote addictive, as well as cloning tendencies, something I've also been guilty of. Unless one has very deep pockets, or is only buying budget clothes, it’s not possible to have a new wardrobe every month. On the flip side, I do love discovering clothes, trends and shopping destinations via my friends, favourite bloggers, grammers and of course magazines - those that personally influence me. It’s swings and roundabouts, but one thing's for sure, it is important to shop consciously, which is why you should put investment pieces on your buying wish-list. Vivienne Westwood was not wrong when she said: “Fashion is very important. It is life-enhancing and, like everything that gives pleasure, it is worth doing well.” It is indeed life-enhancing and so we should be doing it well - hence investing in items that will not only bring us pleasure, but also last longer and not add to more waste. And this probably goes without saying, but we, as bloggers have a responsibility in the things we promote to our audience, however large or small. 

Buys worth investing in:

• Statement jacket – Coco Chanel was on to something when she created her iconic tweed jacket. I love jackets. I wear a lot of denim and I think there’s nothing better than topping a pair of jeans with a beautiful jacket = instant outfit elevation.  It’s my go-to ensemble for a meeting, dinner, evening event or any time I need to look a little more chic.
• Pair of well-fitting jeans - if it's something you're going to wear a lot, it's worth investing in, and I wear jeans almost every day. Last year I invested in these pair of black jeans from Mother, which cost me 300€ - the most I've spent on a pair of jeans, but they've become one of my favourite pairs. I've worn them over and over again and they are still going strong despite multiple washes.
• Leather belt – like a jacket, a good belt instantly elevates jeans and tt’s also a patent finish, so will last longer!
• Stylish, but practical bag

Tips for buying better:

• Create wish-lists on your favourite higher end / luxury sites, add to them throughout the year and wait for the sales! This can be a little laborious, but if you like clothes and shopping (that doesn't involve going into an actual shop) you'll enjoy it! It can save you a lot of money and it means you spend your hard earned cash on things you’ve been coveting for a while at a fraction of the price.
• Follow trends and find a more affordable equivalent. This will take some searching. H&M, Mango, COS and Topshop are my go-to high street retailers for this. Just limit your fast fashion buys to less colourful, more minimal items – one they’ll look more expensive than they are and two you won’t walk down the street wearing the same as everyone else. Also buy from their Premium or Conscious lines - both H&M and Mango have these. And always check the material - buy 100% cotton and try to steer clear of polyester. 
• Sell clothes you don’t wear any more.